Sunday, December 2, 2007

Obvious

Ok, Ok...I know. It's really pretty obvious that at least one of the people discussed in my previous post was me. I admit it.

In case you're wondering which one - I'm C. I've been married to "A" for a little over a year now and have been watching "B" make one HELL of a fool of herself over my husband.
I've watched her make pass after pass at my man and seen them all fail. They were all pathetic but this latest one is the worst: lying her ass off about "A" expecting her to carry on their affair after we married. What a crock.
He never even looked at her after we started DATING let alone after we married. He's the original "one woman man".

You'd think that after 2 years she'd know him better than that!!
Anyway, I guess there's only so much rejection B could take before she started acting like the proverbial 'woman scorned' and found someone stupid enough to buy her lame ass lies. What I'd like to know is if she actually believes them!!!

This woman is all about competition. She's gone to a lot of trouble to keep up with the Jones':

"A" is the leader of a pretty large Pagan group so naturally "B" has to become one.
"A" is in prison ministry, "B" is in prison ministry.
"A" does PPD events, "B" jumps on the bandwagon too.
She (for a while) even had the same teacher! (she messed that up though & has gotten some schyster who doesn't even believe in the degree system to give her her third)
"A" has his Third degree, "B" has to have hers too. (can't have "A" pulling rank now can she?!?!?!)
"A" finds, dates and marries another witch...(yep, you guessed it, so does "B" even if she has to create one herself)

However there has been a new development: she finally found a way to one up "A"..."B" has even gone to the extent to have her new man given ranks which he has not earned. "D" is now a Third Degree too! (isn't that special??!?!?!?!)
Oh, I'm sure that a few of you will think I need to lighten up because "D" may actually have earned it... but you'd be wrong. You'd have to see him in action to know what I'm talking about but considering that the man was barely capable of functioning in a circle in March of this year and was a total embarrassment at someone else's degreeing ritual you're going to have a hard time convincing anyone of us who were there of that.
Still not convinced? Ok, try this on for size- the recipient of the new degree that night was his teacher and later asked our hostess to give "D" his degrees...all at once! This was the first time that she had ever met "D" and the lady was less than impressed. She turned the guy and "D" down.
But, knowing "B" the way we do, we weren't exactly stunned when she got the same guy who agreed to do her Third (with no study) to jump "D" from First to Third at the same ritual.
So, now we have a guy who in less than a year has been given all three if his Degree's!!!!

In the event that you're not familiar with the Wiccan Degree system, there are three degrees that a practitioner can achieve. Each degree is given after certain levels of skill and criteria are satisfied. Reaching Third is something that rightfully should take a person years of hard work and study in order for him/her to grow, learn and adjust to not only the differences in the levels of power you work with but also the life changes that go hand in hand with those Degree's.
All things considered, you almost have to feel sorry for poor "D". His woman has been steadily chasing another man for most of the time they've been together, she's turning him into a surrogate for "A" and now just a few months after she handfasts this guy, "B" is ready to turn his life upside down by claiming that she and my husband carried on an adulterous affair.

And all she has to say for herself is that "A should have been more careful who he told about us."
Well honey...I guess that makes it all right then doesn't it? You feel the need to get all your so called
"truths" out into the open? You go girl!
You go on ahead and hurt two people who have never done anything to you because you just can't get past the fact that "A" broke it off with you and didn't want you back.
Damn girl...don't you think that it's time you put on your big girl panties and got the f*** on with your life ?!?!?!