Saturday, October 22, 2011

New Beginnings




A lot has happened since I last posted: hafla went off without a hitch. My classmates and I wound up dancing THREE group numbers so those plus my solo kept me on my toes. A little after the show, Shannon told me she was very impressed with my dancing which just made my night.
Our class also danced for the Middle Eastern studies group at UALR and again at RiverFest (for the third year running).
Then things got REALLY interesting. David got a job offer out of the blue from a company in New England. After loads of talking and meditating on it, we decided he should take it. I threw my hat in the ring too and had a job offer myself w/in 2days of posting my resume! So...we told the kiddos, told the friends, told the employers and- here we are!
We absolutely love it here. It is breathtakingly beautiful, we live in a picturesque little town, have jobs that pay us very well and the people here are great- even if they do talk funny and say 'wicked' entirely too much, hahaha!
We've also gotten to go see and do some pretty cool things.
Today, for example, we went to the Keene Pumpkin Fest and Celebrate Samhain- where I got to meet both Raven Grimassi and Christopher Penczak...my two favorite Pagan authors. I had the opportunity to chat a little with them and found them both to be warm, funny and lively people. I'm looking forward to starting one of Chris' classes soon. I will let you know how that goes :o)

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Karma

I find myself thinking about odd stuff tonight. Mainly about some former friends who went out of their way to make me feel doubt or to just plain feel BAD by telling me that my guy was only using me to "whitewash his reputation" and by telling me that I was nothing but a trophy.
I found out last night that these same two people are now having major marital issues and are on the verge of divorce.
It makes me wonder if it's Karma.

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Happy New Year!

It's crazy how quickly 2010 passed isn't it? 2010 was such an extremely busy/eventful year that it feels like it had scarcely begun when it ended.
My family saw a lot of action over the past 12 months. Some of it good, some of it bad- and though the bad was never exactly pleasant, it did provide learning experiences and opportunities for growth that we might not have taken otherwise.
We made new friends,strengthened bonds with old ones,laughed,cried,emerged victorious from a couple small battles,loved our kids and each other.
The One Kitty Death Squad got an apprentice/pet to stop her from nagging the HELL out of us and after a few days of spats and sulks, decided to accept his existence. He's a weird little dude: gets in trouble any way that he can, purrs like a buzzsaw, tries to shower with me on occasion, plays in the bathroom sink, considers the printer on David's desk his mortal enemy and prefers to spend his nights sleeping on my head or snuggled between us with his head on my shoulder.
By choice, we spent New Year's Eve more quietly this year; we had dinner out, ran some errands then spent the rest of the night happily snuggled at home, watching silly movies and dancing with each other in the minutes before midnight- and, of course, I got my kiss right at the stroke of midnight :o) After all the hustle and bustle of the holidays, it seemed the perfect thing to do.
Now it's back to work. Things are usually beyond hectic this time of the year on the job front- it always is the 1st quarter. Stress is always a close companion, especially when it comes to the new policy of only training the newbies on about a 1/4of our business...whoever thought that having them transfer work to others instead of fully training them was a good thing needs to have their head examined! All the older employees have a lot to say about the new 'training program' and NONE of it's good. The new policy, combined with the freeze on PT is already making sure that we can hardly wait for the end of the quarter.
On a far more entertaining note:I'm still teaching/dancing with Elemental AND dancing with Troupe Talameez. Right now, I'm prepping for two hafla's (one for the students and one to dance in)which could be a little intimidating if I let it. We (Jennifer and I)have two numbers that we're teaching the students simultaneously while I'm learning three group numbers and a solo for the one I'm performing in at the same time. Fun, huh?
So far, no problems in remembering any of the dances but at some point I'm sure I'm gonna have dreams where I forget something and try to dance choreography to the wrong music! LOL!!

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Belly Dance @ River Fest

Wow...what a crazy weekend this was!!!!!! We had so much going on that it seemed like it was completely non-stop from one day to the next.
The rest of the girls & I had worked hard for and looked forward to our performance Saturday: Troupe Talameez was dancing at 4 on the International Stage as part of Mirana's show. Previously, the stage had been adjacent to the Peabody in a small grassy area which made it extremely easy to pop out, dance, pop back in, change & get cool, pop back out & dance again. However, the Peabody or the city of Little Rock (in their infinite wisdom) deemed that the grassy area was no longer fashionable and there is now a sculpture garden there!!!
Imagine, if you will, trooping through the usual River Fest crowds wearing a belly dance costume and the corresponding make up...yeah. That was interesting!! The show itself was great- everyone danced beautifully despite the heat and humidity.
I had, quite fortunately as it turned out, finally gotten myself a pair of dance shoes. It was a really good thing as it turned out because that black stage (which had gotten full sun all day long) was so hot it literally burned blisters on the feet of several of my fellow dancers. That stage was damn hot WITH shoes so I can only imagine how much it hurt to dance on it barefoot...but they did it & smiled the whole time-what can I say, they're awesome!!
Several of us stayed afterwards to watch two other groups dance. I know it's predjudiced but with a couple exceptions, our group- thanks to Shannon's tutelage, attention to detail & technique, work ethic and choreography- outperformed them. But it goes deeper than that- yes, we had superior technique but there's also a persona that you put on with your make up & costume. Tribal Motion had it, Traveling Hips really didn't.
Yes, I know that the style between Oriental and Tribal are vastly different & that the differences extend to costuming and expressions. For example:
Tribal Motion/TM(as their name implies)dances ATS- which stands for American Tribal Style, made immensely popular by performers like Rachel Brice- and wears the corresponding costume. The persona presented is usually more serious/somber than those of us who dance Oriental/Middle Eastern style. You may see a slight smile or two but not like what you'll see when you watch Oriental.
Traveling Hips/TH calls their style Fusion- which means that they could perform any number of styles rather than any one particular type. Performances would reflect this blend in styles, persona and costuming with the dancers dressing to indicate what style they're performing.
That's not exactly what happened Saturday: TM came out in full ATS regalia with music & attitude to match. TH came out dressed in Oriental style & played appropriate music but missed the persona by a mile. With the exception of one dancer, they looked like they would rather have been anywhere else but there- you can't do that and expect your audience to believe that you're enjoying what you're doing.
It's a little odd to look at them from the point of view of two years under Shannon but I can see the difference now and appreciate it-because I used to dance with two of the TH ladies. I don't know if I looked like that while I danced with them but I don't look like that now!!
Shannon's method includes teaching you that your facial and body language should reflect the music you dance to. For example- you're not going to smile like an idiot to an ooey gooey piece of music anymore than you would look like you're trying to be super seductive to a fast bouncy piece.
I know that they would be probably be too proud to go but the best thing that TH could do would be to swallow their pride, admit that they could use it and go to Shannon's class. They wouldn't have to stop being 'them' but it would improve their technique, their performances, their teaching and their appreciation for the art of bellydance.

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Happenings

It's been a little bit since I wrote last so I’ll play catch up:
The One Kitty Death Squad triumphed!! The death toll was more than we had anticipated but we consider them acceptable losses. We haven’t seen any since she assassinated the last one in March.
Belly Dance Class- I am having the time of my life and learning so much. Thanks to my fellow students /dear friends Jennifer, Ellen, Shr’ron, Kimber & Andrea and our AWESOME teacher, I’ve rediscovered my passion for it. It’s great to have a teacher who is experienced in the art, knows proper technique and stance and teaches you how to avoid getting hurt. It’s utterly refreshing to have a teacher who cares- Thank you Shahna!!!

Last but not least: Congratulations to Eliana on earning her First Degree! Eliana is a student of mine who came to me from another teacher. She’s really bloomed since coming to class & is a joy to teach. It was a wonderful ritual with many friends and loved ones there to witness the event. I’m looking forward to seeing her continue on her path. She’s going to make a wonderful High Priestess someday.
Morgaine, one of my other students, was so funny. You could almost see her taking mental notes on what was going on, how it was done & what happened. She did her dedication right before going off to college last August. Even though it was a little challenging to meet on the weekends she came home, she has continued her studies in addition to her regular classes- if she keeps this pace up, it won’t be long before she’s earned her First Degree too!!!

Monday, February 22, 2010

One Kitty Death Squad




Well- we knew that we had at least one mouse as we saw the little f***er more than once but could never catch the damn thing or convince the landlord to actually do anything about it other than complain that they had to have come from the guy who had a snake eons ago in one of the other apartments.
But now that the One Kitty Death Squad is living with us, we now know that there were many more than that.
The body count is three and 1/8 mice over a 2 day period. Saturday: delivery of the first corpse. I think it (an adult) was already dead but she brought it to me anyway- bless her furry little heart! We found a dead 'baby' next...she was playing with it downstairs. David got to her before she could kill the next 'baby' and took it out to give it a new home....I think he walked across the road and chucked it into the backyard of the folks who back up to the train tracks. The next thing we found her with was a head....took that nasty thing away too and tossed it in the dumpster.
She's been stalking the house ever since- searching for her next victim.
I feel safer already!!
LMAO

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Update on Jen

WAY TO GO JEN!!!!!

Knew you could do it girl!

You may or may not remember my cousin Jen- diagnosed with breast cancer while pregnant with twins?

I’m thrilled to report that 3 months post delivery, mom and baby are doing beautifully!!
Welcome to the world Maya!!

Jen has completed 10 sessions of chemo (very aggressive but then again so is the cancer), has already had her mastectomy, begun taking her medication to ‘starve’ the cancer of estrogen (yeah…I remember those days & it’s no walk in the park- but compared to chemo it’s easy) and will start 6 weeks of radiation in January after a much needed break in Hawaii with Jay :o)

The Goddess has been with them every step of the way- holding Jen’s hand and whispering encouragement in her ear.
Thanks to everyone who offered their support, energy and prayers during the worst part of this ordeal.
Please continue to keep Jen (& family) in your thoughts as she enters the next phase of her fight.

Blessed Be-